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Ricky's Review
Ricky's Monthly Newsletter May 2007

In this issue

Out & About

Quote of the Day


 

Out & About

With the Prince of Persuasion, Joel Bauer ****************************************

Your should have been there with about 400+ people in the ballroom. Joel Bauer held everyone in awe. Most were speechless as he demonstrated his prowess in absolute persuasive techniques.

Let me share with you that I'm not easily impressed with most people who profess to be professional speakers. Joel not only impressed me, but he's truly a modern wizard in the sense that he's got to be one of the greatest pitchman in the world today!

Joel uses a brilliant method to influence by employing fun and entertainment to make a more convincing pitch.

By using compelling, often whimsical strategies that tap into people's emotions, he made the audience totally receptive to his message.

So what's the secret to Joel's influencing prowess? One of the very first things you must do is to master the quick pitch, or what's called the 20 second commercial that brings YOU into the picture.

Most people, when asked a question about what they do, answer in ways like, "Oh, I'm a policeman". Another might reply, "I'm a gardener". In my books, the trick is to make yourself from ordinary to extraordinary. So an example of what you could say is, "You know how people don't have a lot of time leftover at the end of the day or even at the weekends to look after their gardens? Well, what I do is to help people landscape their gardens into a thing of beauty and joy, and as a result, they come home to their own Japanese Garden, or English garden and thoroughly enjoy it, slipping into their paradise."

By making such a dramatic opening commercial, clients are usually much impressed, and after the networking session, you would be in a much better position of being called for further talks (and eventually business) with the the person you met.

Now doesn't that sound simple? Sure it does. And is it easy? Yes, but only with constant practice until you perfect your opening statement!

That's one way you can become the Prince (or Princess) of Persuasion!




Greetings!

In the Antipodes (Australia and New Zealand) it's starting to get close to Winter and it'll start to get colder by June 1, which is the start of official Winter Down Under.

This month, I'm travelling to Seattle, USA to attend T. Harv Eker's, world famous 3-day "Millionnaire Mind Intensive Seminar" . I've been planning this trip for months, and it's just going to be so exciting! I'll tell you more about it next month when I return.

I'm also visiting my brother Steve, who lives in Victoria, B.C., Canada. I'm really looking forward to do that as this is my first trip to Canada. I'm glad it's not Wintertime over there! That would be so cold for me as I'm like a lizard ... I prefer a warmer climate!

Be great, take care, and have an awesome May! To your success...

Ricky Lien
Executive Speech Coach

PPS: If you have any comments or feedback, do write me a line
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Gung Ho Bank Relationship Managers get together to learn the finer Art of Networking...How To Build Relationships For Life"

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Networking is the very core of high-performance marketing. It is influencing the people who influence other high networth people. It's taken me quite a few years to perfect this skill.

It's self-evident...ordinary sales professionals target ordinary clients. In sharp contrast, extraordinary sales professionals target clients who are opinion leaders of affluent affinity groups.

Just imagine the impact on revenue of a sales professional when s/he is endorsed by the president of a trade association whose members might include a few millionaires!

For networking to run at the the optimum level, sales professionals should transfer themselves into lean, mean, networking machines. What steps are there? Here's a system, which I call the A to E's of networking when you first connect with clients at social, company or other events.

Remember that the main purpose of networking functions is not to sell your product or service the very first time you meet someone at functions. It is to make an impression on the other person that you are friendly, professional and have creditability. You will need to pick a more appropriate time after the networking event to follow up .

Here are the five steps from A to E:

1. A = Attitude - ensure you have a positive attitude and it's worth catching! It's your attitude, not your aptitude that determines your altitude.

2. B = Body language. Ensure that you are congruent with your body language, i.e. when you move your face and body, your speech is consistent with your body. Ensure that you "wrap the pack", in other words, dress yourself in your best threads that you have to reflect professionally what you do. Make sure you show a good, firm handshake. And gentlemen, no sweaty palms!

3. C = Congruence. Build trustworthiness, have credibility. Be credible. People look to do business with people they can trust.

4. D = Dialogue. Ensure that you master the art of small talk when meeting other people. I suggest you prepare a range of topics that you are comfortable to talk about. Read more, read more widely, and focus on a few topics that you can master.

5. E = Empathy. This is a most uncommon characteristic. People love it when you genuinely empathise with them. How do you show empathy? Well, you can start by being more attentive, appreciate them for who they are, and affirm their thoughts by understanding their position and their perceptions.

There you are. The ABCDE's of networking skills will help you to connect with anyone. Cultivate the habit of including a few broad, open questions to help the other to talk more about themselves.

And remember, always ask to be introduced to the host and also get to meet the VIP's in the function. And thank finally, before you leave, thankthe hosts for inviting you. That way, they're sure to remember you!

Good luck in your Art of Networking! Polish it and you'll end up reaping huge dividends!

  • Quote of the Day
  • From Stuart Wilde, one of my favourite philosophers, from his book, The Secrets of Life

    On Learning Through Mistakes

    We came to this earthplane without a manual. We're not a Japanese digital box complete with instructions in nine languages.

    We just plopped here and we have to muddle along trying to understand what the heck's going on without anyone really showing us, "Hey, this is the way."

    And so if you allow the guilt trips of life to mess with you, it will rot your brain. The mistakes you made - you needed them.

    And the people you impacted through those mistakes - they needed them also. And so bit by bit, realising that, you can come to a healing of your life.

    What do you think about Stuart's philosophy? Any comments? Write to me if you have any insights to add to his.

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