Mindset Media Pty Ltd
.   September 2003
. Ricky's Review
in this issue
.
Out and About

We ran our second, "Why Training Doesn't Work...What Went Wrong...and What to do About It" forum at the Grand Hyatt and it was a great afternoon! We all got to network and to come up with lots of sharing on what some of the most common challenges there are in training.

By the end of the afternoon, the group was able to narrow down to some of the more important issues to ensure that training does work. Thanks to Partners Conference & Event Management for organising it, and to my good friend and professional colleague Shirley Taylor for helping to co- facilitate it!

In the coming month, I'm looking forward to working with M1 on "Think On Your Feet" and with CAAS on "Target Setting and Performance Management".

Also coming up soon will be some public workshops called
"Speak to Win",
organised by
Partners Conference
and Event Management
.
These will be held in:

Bangkok - 10 October
Kuala Lumpur - 14 October
Singapore - date to be decided

For more details please e-mail Delphine at Partners.




Quick Links...
Dear reader,

I'm home in Sydney for some R & R as well as formulating marketing plans for getting more of my programs through in the region. Spring is in the air in September, and as I take my daily walks for exercise, I am just thrilled at looking at the clear deep blue sky above, feeling the nip in the air and the clean environment that is so much a part of this big land called Australia. We live on such a wonderful planet, don't we?

I've just finished reading a book by Colin Pearce, a fellow Australian speaking professional, and it's titled, "5 Star Service on a 1 Star Budget". It's all about customer service and what will provide your customer the most value and to the establishment, the healthiest revenues.

Having come from a service quality background in the early '90s and gotten involved in the ISO9000 quality movement, I was impressed by Colin's humorous approach to service quality, and if you want to know more about sales communications and a whole lot of useful articles, check out his website at Colin Pearce

I hope you enjoy this second issue. Please send me an e-mail at ricky@mindsetmedia.com.sg with your feedback and any thoughts on what you would like to see in future issues. It would be great to hear from you.

Have a great September, and I'll see you next month.

Ricky

Listen to me!...why we don't listen enough
In communication, if we only listened with an intent to understand rather than to quick-fix the problem, we would have less stress and better relationships. Listening is a skill, and unfortunately, this skill is not often taught at home, school, or even at work. It's easier said than done, yet with some thinking and practice, we could have a much better working relationship with each other.

To read my article on how to improve your relationships in your communications with others, please click on the link "Active Listening"

When you can truly perform and integrate the skills of active listening, your relationships, both at work and at home will be far improved.

I am mindful of watching my ego rear into its usual defence mode whenever I am in conflict with others. Yet it is so easy to manage the conflict when we put our ego aside, take several deep breaths to calm down, and take the emotion out. Then take the time to listen to the other. You will be amazed at how rapidly you can manage any situation when you active listen.

Read more about Active Listening »

Customer Service


Another of my training specialisms is customer service so here's some interesting facts about this. The Australian Customer Service Association reported that ..."nearly 70% of customers switch business because of poor customer service (Ansett 1991).

Richard Whitely in The Forum Corp, Customer Focus Research Study (1988) discovered that almost 70 % of the identifiable reasons why customers left typical companies had nothing to do with the product.

3,300 employees from 14 major companies were surveyed in both manufacturing and service industries to find:

    Only 15% of customers switched their business to a competitor because they found a better product
    Only 15% of the customers switched because they found a cheaper product
    20% switched because they had experienced too little contact and individual attention
    49% said they switched because the attention they received was poor in quality

Companies that provide high quality products with high quality service hold the competitive edge in the market place.

Empowerment - Championing Our Inner Child


Most of us grow up in dysfunctional families. Virginia Satir, the American therapist said that 97% of American families were dysfunctional. Dr John Bradshaw says that ALL families are dysfunctional!

The hypothesis is that we are often children in adult bodies and this is one of the main reasons why we feel disempowered at work.

Happiness and work. These often don't mix because we are still carrying the 'child' within us and faced with authority figures, difficult customers, pressing deadlines, uncooperative team members, we are often cowed into submission by giving up our own 'power' and trying to please everybody but ourselves.

No wonder we seem to have so little happiness, personal satisfaction and empowerment at work!

I'm running some programmes this month with an in- house client to talk about how this occurs and what to do about regaining our own power.

I'm really looking forward to it.

In closing ...


I hope you've enjoyed this second issue of Ricky's Review. I would love some feedback from readers, so please
e-mail me
with your comments and ideas for future issues.

Until next month ...

Ricky

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